Anthony is lost in control
“I used use sex to control her.”
“Ok.”
“You are ready not listening.
“I am.”
“I was so desperate to be seen, and I felt like if a woman was ensnared in something physically, initially my chances were good that they would have to be a bit arrested.”
“For what?”
“More of a commitment.”
“Marriage?”
“No. Again I was so desperate to be seen, for whatever that means. It is like I am always feeling around looking for something substantial. The control was me thinking that she needed to be kidnapped through sex to.. ”
“Ransom?”
“Essentially myself. I figured it was going to happen through something vulnerable like that and she would have no choice, or anyone during that period anyway.”
“Ok.”
“I would get some sort of commitment out of it that was different and more satisfying than what is talked about or presented.”
“Sex is a hostage situation for you?”
“I’m valuable, the other person is valuable. I need commitment to that value. There has to be some suspicion.”
“Yeah ok.”
“You’re lost.”
“I am.
“Don’t worry I am too.”
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